‘How are you?’ I asked a colleague I met on the stairs a little while ago.
‘I’m good,’ he replied.
When asked how I am, I tend to reply ‘well’, or ‘not particularly well’ or ‘less well than before I saw you’ or something else appropriate. But ‘good’? Who am I to say? Surely that’s for some properly constituted moral authority, a Creator, or at least Priest, a Judge or at any rate a moral philosopher. It’s hardly for me to make that call.
The other greeting that’s becoming increasingly common these days is ‘how are you doing?’ All I can ever find to reply is ‘how am I doing what?’ Sadly, that seems to kill the conversation.
Should I be answering ‘good’?
This is why God invented "OK," and/or "Fine." Though lord knows, those words aren't entirely free from complication either.
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